Friction

Can't think of anything....

As Kera lay there trying to figure out what could have went wrong, staring into the distance far away...all she could think was, she is now all broken and torn apart..on verge of giving up her live.

      Two years ago when she first met Adam, it was the best thing that ever happened to her. She was in her first year of college and he was in his final year..He had the most charming personality. The way he walks,the way he talks and everything about him was a boomer. Every lady in the corridor who came across him had something nice to talk about him.. He was a wow factor.
         As per Kera,she was a simple village girl who came to the college through government scholarship because of her extreme talent and leadership quality. She was a girl who didn't appreciate her beauty much..tried her hair at back and her closet was full of those old fashion cloths. But she had her own charm.
             Everything about Kera was polite and decent..The main reason behind Adam falling for her..
It was freshers night and Adam was the event manager, he had to talk with the juniors regarding their performance. He called in all of them and started briefing them.. It was that moment when he saw a decent looking girl, bending down to pick up her pencil, parting her hair which has fallen on her face.. It was a love at first sight.
          It took few days for him to figure out whether it was infatuation or love...but when he tried to figure out more, he was getting to know kera in dept and his love for her was growing even deeper..Everything about her was a perfection..it was like god has erased the imperfection out of her dictionary..She was always appreciated for whet she did and kept doing things at her best..
            On the other side kera was also noticing Adam...His moves so captivating and perfect in her eyes..but she could do nothing..She thought to herself that a guy who is admired and approached by so many beautiful girls will have nothing for a girl like her..those girls are more confident and richer than her. Kera never knew that she was prettier in her own ways..
          When Adam first approached her..She didn't know what to do...It was a shock...She could say nothing but she will think it over and give the answer soon.She didn't want to make any decision in haste so It took Kera one week to figure out that she was falling for Adam too..

          The one week was intense for Adam..Finally at the weekend end they went out for a dinner and Kera accepted the proposal. 

            They were the most happy couple in the campus..There were lots of people who were jealous. specially those beautiful rich girls whose dream was to date and marry Adam. Some of them tried to create misunderstanding between the couple and tried to destroy their relation.

Love for each other was too strong for anything to come in between...It was growing deeper with time instead of fading..they were intimate....passionate and perfect lover to each other.

          It was almost one year and time for Adam to graduate and live the place. He asked Kera for the prom. He was the prom king and Kera was the prom Queen...it was the best time of their life.

             Everything was so perfect. it was like the heaven has shifted it's ground to earth where ever they were. Every one were so found of them.. Even their parents came to know about them and they were so happy about them... Kera was so much adored by Adam's parents and Adam the same in Kera's family.

          what could have went wrong in such a beautiful relationship??between such a passionate couple??that left Kera so torn apart and broken...

figure it out and let me know...:)

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Self Esteem

Self Esteem-pride and honor behind a man's success. 

Ever felt like you been broken down, pushed away and kicked so hard that you are not able to wake up from the ground, dust yourself and walk away with pride. These are the normal lemons of life you face each time you want to do something good.
               I have been through such incidents in my life..Sometimes the bitterness is so hard that it tears you apart,breaks you down and all you are left with is shock and sadness that almost tries to paralyze you.
                    The most important thing to do during these crucial time is never lose your self-esteem...Always keep your self at high self-esteem..and love yourself as much as you can..
It's only you and yourself alone that can judge and know what you are going through. Always place yourself above anyone.
                     Some people tend to lose self esteem at such time and they go through nervous break down. Nervous break down is something no one can face at any age. It leaves a man shattered.

               When you go through certain bumps in life...never feel that you are not worthy of anything..
Always remember that you are "worthy" of something and you are going to prove to the world that you are the best.
                  High self-esteem leads to enjoying high values in life. You become more competent and you are valued more by the superior as well as the colleagues...A talented man with low self esteem is worth nothing and your talents are never recognized..
              To make a noise in the world,the environment you are living in..have a high self esteem...have courage to face anything..don't fear challenges....Let the haters bark..let the air be full of jealousy ..Always keep in mind when you are going forward,"barking dog never bites" and jealousy becomes your puller to the height of success.  ...
       Today I write this as I am finally being recognized for my talent and what I am capable of doing..."HAVE A HIGH SELF ESTEEM..ENJOY THE FRUIT IT BRINGS"...
                   
 

Lesson of the week "How to resolve conflict"..

This was the assignment topic to be worked on for the past week and this is what I came up with.. I did a little bit reading on the internet and googled few pictures..At last this is what i could best come out with..Resolving conflict Brochure for the peaceful working environment...lesson learned was resolving different types of conflict.

 

 conflicts are best if resolved earlier...fire must be brought down when its small...

What to do when you're upset....

When you are upset about something and that's draining your weekend...put on your headset..full volume on..take your camera...relax in the cool breeze...take a long breathe and take pictures like nothing is wrong...all you got to do is hold on and let go...be positive..enjoy the moments..:)smile..never let anything come between you and your happiness...something from my lens..i took them all when i was upset..see how beautiful the pictures come.

THE JOURNEY WITHIN

My learning experiences so far in Eco Village School

  For a new bud, who just got out of college, it has been a great learning experience so far. With zero competence in teaching experience and zero knowledge about the concept of Eco village and Eco learning, I started the course and within few days of exploring and soaking in the culture of different learning environment, SVIS has discovered the potential in me, not only the things that i have been missing out in life but also the talents that has been hidden for a long time.

        The journey has been good so far. I have learned so many new things and still the learner in me is craving for the hunger to learn more and more everyday.

                                                                                    The best experiences or the best times were the ones that I went through in the beginning. The first one week session with the heads of the of the heavenly learning school opened my eyes to many things.. Learned many things about self as well as the childhood and inner development. It brought out whats best in me.

                                                                             Starting with the development of infant in mothers womb to the child's psychology during the developmental phase of it's live, the environment needed for learning, the psychological phases in the developmental stages from infant to adolescent all has been really fun to learn.

 The developmental needs ,psychology the childs going through during the process, the roles teacher and parents need to play has inculcated the fire of motivation in me to take up this noble profession. There is so much we can do in bringing up the future of our nation builders. Lead them in the right path, guide them properly.

              At first all i was thinking was Teaching as a mere teacher centered approach. After coming here i have learned how fun a teaching can be made, through group activities, children centered approach, various activities that can not only develop a child mentally but physically as well. Things learned definitely going to make teaching learning experiences a fun thing to do.

                                                                              The knowledge gained is kept,deep within the heart to carry on. Even the classroom interaction with the children and sharing few of my knowledge has proved to be a great advantage in the developmental phase of this profession.

                                                                                                 Things here learned taught me patience, command over my speaking skill, and learned how knowledge sharing can be made into a fun thing using different methods.

                       As the logo says I am here exploring, on the basis gaining experience. I am sure to evolve one day when i leave here. And sooner or later I will be expressing to the world what I have learned from this pristine Institute.

Lesson no.1

I don't want to argue with anyone..I am done fighting for what is right and what is wrong....probably i am dragging other people into it too...I guess life for me says "don't have to hover over again and again into something that tickles the sense of negativity in you...Time to let go of the thing that are not working out"..too young to hold on to things that are bringing pain not only to self but others in the environment as well....Life is all about experimenting and sticking to the ones that is most feasible...only a stone can stay in a single place..despite of sunlight, rainfall or thunderstorm...
        Its not always good fighting for the right..if it's not your problem..if you are not the one into the thick soup or if its something that is going to create hatred among others..of course the Buddha said."don't be selfish:" But here the thing is not about being selfish..It's about making the change for your happiness... The mere research behind happiness is..it begins with self and only if you are happy than you can make others happy and the environment will be a happy one..I thank my friend Thinley for igniting this light in me during our conversation about the situation i am in right now. Be selfish if it's your happiness that's at stake.

                                                                                                                                                                                          "Hatred generates negative energy" and if there is hatred you better be quick in reacting to the problem. Always be the one behind the research to figure out where you went wrong. Here i already have done it. Now the thing is I have to prove that i am the best and if they lose me,they going to regret..I am going to show them that i am the best. 

       Figure out your goals,set in the things that are going to bring out the best in you. I have so far been good and if thats how i am being judged i have to make certain change in me and figure out where I went wrong.. I am going to think only about myself..stop caring for others and do best that i can..
         So either bring the change to see if its working out and good if it does...if not plan, set something else and move on to another...but make sure you have things ready on other side before leaving.. sow the seeds and jump on to where its green...

     If things work out after making certain change in my character I will stick to the present deed i am doing if not like the earlier statement..it will become a mere experiment of my life..I am going to let go of this..and begin my next adventure. I have all ready and set if i want to go from here.

Life's Adventure

The best thing a man can do is...take his camera..pack a backpack...and go on a adventure likenothing is holding back...take lots of photos and enjoy the moment like its the end..Some of my favorite pictures captured...more to come... #nofilter Follow me on instagram. @namgyal.tiku for more photos from my collection.